One October evening in Santa Ana, California, a 24 year old with autism named Manuel Velazquez runs laps and shoots free throws with his team. Cones are set for the zig zag drill – a year in, this directive still made no sense to him. Nonetheless, we cheer him on for his efforts.
On this particular day, seeking to better understand him, I asked: “Manny, do you know left from right?” “Yes.” he said confidently. He could tell direction, but simply couldn't hold the “zig zag” shape in his mind! I took some extra cones, slit them through the standing ones, so they jutted out, and explained the task. Manuel moved, one cone at a time, assessing the puzzle before him.
For the first time ever... Manny completed the drill. Later, his Mom came up and bashfully said, “No pensé que pudiera.” (“I didn't think he could.”) And then, the question that would shift my career for three years:
“Could you teach Manny to be more independent?”
Scope and Build informed each other.
SKILLS
Steadfast Patience- The most I have ever used. A constant reframing of expectations to best serve the student
Faithful Curiosity- Sometimes the solution won't come from your first impulses, and so you have to go searching for it in a place you wouldn't be inclined to look.
Presence- I have to scan for details constantly to make sure I understand Manny.